How many parents remember the infant through toddler years? Remember when they learned to walk but our little ones were still learning the language, so they did a lot of pointing. When frustrated, they would point at the object they wanted. When you didn’t respond the pointing was accompanied by crying until you got frustrated and would say, “What do you want from me?” Many times we would get that quizzical look from our precious child that asked, “why don’t you know what I want.”
Many times when we finally got the requested item, they would change their minds because they saw something else they might like better, forgetting about the first item. I remember holding up numerous snack boxes up to my one year old, only to hear, “No, no…fafooms, faFOOMS.” What?!
For those of you who do not speak toddler, fafooms were marshmallows.
When I finally figured it out, we were both very happy. We sat down and ate fafooms together. Moms and Dads know serving in those early years.
In our passage today, two blind men know exactly what they want and who can give it to them. No language barrier here. But still, Jesus asks, “What do you want me to do for you?” What?!?
Matthew 20
Two Blind Men Receive Sight
29 As Jesus and his disciples were leaving Jericho, a large crowd followed him. 30 Two blind men were sitting by the roadside, and when they heard that Jesus was going by, they shouted, “Lord, Son of David, have mercy on us!”
31 The crowd rebuked them and told them to be quiet, but they shouted all the louder, “Lord, Son of David, have mercy on us!”
32 Jesus stopped and called them. “What do you want me to do for you?” he asked.
33 “Lord,” they answered, “we want our sight.”
34 Jesus had compassion on them and touched their eyes. Immediately they received their sight and followed him.
THINK ABOUT IT…
HUMBLE SERVING
“Lord, have mercy on us” were the words shouted for Jesus, the Messiah and Healer, accompanied by call Jesus the “Son of David”. Did this get the attention of Jesus? Or was it the compassion of Jesus? Jesus, as an example to his disciples, became a servant to beggars who’s living consisted of asking for pennies every day at the gate to the city. Do you think Jesus turned toward them because He knew they knew who He was and believed in what He could do?
Jesus, having compassion on blind Bartimaeus and his blind companion, asked specifically what they wanted in “mercy”. We are not sure why Jesus asked them, “What do you want me to do for you?” when it seemed obvious to all standing around watching. But isn’t it a wonderful example of serving? When servers come to your table at your favorite restaurant, they do not tell you what to eat, but they ask you want you want? THIS is serving.
A servant of a King comes to him for orders, asking humbly, “What do you want from me?” And then the servant does what was asked of him. So, here Jesus put into practice what He had just taught the disciples. He became a servant to two rejected blind beggars. The crowds around Jesus tried to silence the two men. After all, what claim did they have on the great Teacher? But Jesus had compassion on them and healed them. He was the servant even of beggars.
God’s Word contains some hard things for us to receive and practice. If we love the things of this world, we cannot love God supremely. If we are not yielded completely to His will, we cannot obey Him unreservedly. If we seek glory for ourselves, or if we compare ourselves with other believers, then we cannot glorify Him. We cannot acknowledge Jesus as our King unless we love Him supremely, obey Him unreservedly, and glorify Him completely. But if we do these things, we will share in His life and joy, and one day reign with Him!
HOLY PAUSE
When we serve, do we do for others what we think they need? Or, like Jesus, do we ask, “what do you want from me” and then do it.
Serving is putting others interests and desires before our own. What is obvious and assumed by us is not necessarily the true need. (See also Philippians 2)
We must ask questions, listen carefully and then respond humbly. Serving is not about us “doing the good thing” so we will feel good. It is about helping others and glorifying God above all.
“Lord, we want out sight.”
Dear Lord and Savior,
Heal our spiritual blindness when it comes to humbly serving. Help us to take cues from You and Your Holy Spirit when helping others by asking the right questions. Continue to transform us to more like you and less like the world in our thinking and behaving. In Jesus Name, Amen

Do you know where the word “shotgun” originated? The expression “riding shotgun” is derived from “shotgun messenger”, a colloquial term for “express messenger”, when stagecoach travel was popular during the American Wild West and the Colonial period in Australia. The person rode alongside the driver. The first known use of the phrase “riding shotgun” was in the 1905 novel The Sunset Trail by Alfred Henry Lewis.
“Wyatt and Morgan Earp were in the service of The Express Company. They went often as guards—’riding shotgun,’ it was called—when the stage bore unusual treasure.”
Matthew 20
23 Jesus said to them, “You will indeed drink from my cup, but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared by my Father.”
In the Kingdom of Jesus, we are called to serve, not be served.
What is the mission Jesus commanded his disciples then (and now) to be and do? 
Back in the day, as a first grade teacher, I would heave a big sigh of frustration when it was time to line up students and take them to another location, any location! It didn’t matter where we were going, the scenario was the same. EVERYONE wanted to be first in line. Some fought so hard that the line would tumble like dominoes from the door to their desks. This would be followed by, “Ow, you hurt me!” or “Teacher, he touched me!” This was followed by the screamed words, “HEY, I WAS HERE FIRST!”
“Here’s what we are going to do”, I said with complete calm. It is amazing how you fight every day to be first when we are all going to the same place and will end up there at the same time! Think about it.
“Stay in line exactly as you are”, I reminded them. You fought to be where you are so stay there. I dropped the hand of the first in line. I then took the hand of the last one in line and led the line to the door. “There you are, the last will be first today and the first will be last.” There were groans but the point was made.
“He went out again about noon and about three in the afternoon and did the same thing. 6 About five in the afternoon he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, ‘Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?’
THINK ABOUT IT MORE DEEPLY…
Put yourself in the place of those workers who were 
“Do I just have to be good to get to heaven?” This six year old was cutting out a piece of her Sunday School craft when she stopped to ask me this question as her teacher and trusted friend. The question came in a quiet moment. The Holy Spirit prompted me to answer this question with real truth.
I am so glad I stopped to listen well, not only to Ashley but to the Holy Spirit leading me as her teacher. Please. do not question when God leads. A few months later, doctors would discover a rapidly advancing cancer in one of Ashley’s legs. She would lose that leg in aggressive efforts to rid her of cancer followed by chemo for months. Ashley amazed all who cared for her of her faith in Jesus and her endurance with a comical, positive attitude through this very trying time in her life and in the life of her parents.
“Leave it all. Come, follow Me”. Jesus is still asking us today. This request along with this question must be pondered daily to stay focused on God’s best for us: Are we more concerned with being good or being saved by grace?
16 Just then a man came up to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?”
21 Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
26 Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”
HOLY PAUSE
NOTE: 

We were led by a missionary veteran of over 25 years of living as a Haitian in this beautiful country. I saw why she lived here and why the people loved her so much. She loved well.
As I followed Lois, who knew every place that might trip us, I felt like a follower of Jesus. Everyone greeted Lois with huge smiles. She returned the greeting with concern for what was going on in their lives. She knew their stories.
Matthew 19
Can we show mercy and grace like Jesus did when the kids of His Kingdom ran to greet Him?
Just because we can, legally, breaking up is hard to do as the song goes. It’s even harder to explain to God, who put us together according to what two people say in their premarital counseling and vowed in their ceremony to “have and to hold until death do us part.” We invite God into the ceremony but sometimes leave Him out of the marriage.
There will always be temptations to leave this union with sexual thoughts called lust of others thinking you could do better if given the chance. There will always be temptations to leave because of selfishness, pride, “greener grass”, because we always have this inner sin nature that wants more and more instead of being grateful and content for what you have.
God hates divorce because He knows how much divorce hurts us. Our loving Father wants the best for us. He wants a loving, intimate relationship with us that lasts forever. His love goes deeper than we can imagine. His love sent His Son, Jesus Christ to save us by paying the debt of all our sin that resulted from our destructive selfishness that causes deep pain!
How? 
At the end of the work day you drive home. The traffic is bad so you let people in other cars know that you are the only one who really knows how to drive, showing no mercy with shouts and hand signals.
Your family greets you with smiles, wanting to tell you about their day and you tell them to go away. Or they come to you for help with a problem and you humble them like you were humbled. “Why can’t you just do it yourself?”, you shout. You forget you were shown mercy and got to keep your job! Have mercy!
21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”
29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’
JESUS’ WARNING
THIS IS KEY: Nathan’s love for God and David led him, at all risks to his life and future relationships with David, to confront him. So Nathan, grieving over the situation and led by God, confronts David of his sin of adultery and murder.
Considering this story and thinking about times when friends have spoken truth to me (or members of my family), I have put together a short list of clues that indicate that someone is speaking God’s truth:
3. The message is specific.
When someone has a pulse on your situation, not only the facts but also the feelings, this person can guide you in confronting a problem and taking a step in a new direction.
WHAT DO WE LEARN FROM JESUS?
What are you not willing to do? The list is exhaustive for each of us who live in this world. I’m not willing to eat liver and onions. I’m not willing to even smell it cooking. I’m not willing to spend all day in unproductive activities or meetings. I’m not willing to be isolated. Ooh, now I’ve got your attention, right?
Our heavenly Father was not willing to leave us to our own sins that lead to destruction and death. Our Father, who loves everyone in the world, sent His One and Only Son to earth to die for our sins and set us free from the clutches of evil so we could have a forever relationship with Him. 

Dear Heavenly Father,
And oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God
THINK ABOUT IT
But Jesus is also talking to us who are “lifers” in His church who can be so judgmental that the same oppression can be felt by fragile new believers who ask questions about growing in their faith but only get answers that have to do with man-made rules and regs of what “we have always done at this church”. This is a stumbling block to real growth in the characteristics of God while growing more in love with Jesus who died and rose again for us. It’s almost as if the Good News is followed by bad news of “you must be like us”. Yikes.