LEADERSHIP 101

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LEADERSHIP 101

Being and Becoming Christian

If you have ever been put into a leadership position, you know that very soon after the “honeymoon” is over that problems will arise. Many times it is not you, it is the Truth that you proclaim that is not pleasing to those who do not want to be or become more like Christ. Paul’s leadership is attacked by the Corinthian church for pointing out Truth, with love in his heart for them. His motivation to help them live more in line with how his Master Jesus taught them (and us) with how to love and live in community with other believers was not taken well.

Before we dive into this letter, read this introduction by Eugene Peterson:

“They bucked his authority–accused him of inconsistencies, impugned his motives, questioned his credentials. They didn’t argue with what he had written; they simply denied his right to tell them what to do.”

“And so Paul was forced to defend his leadership. After mopping up a few details left over from the first letter, he confronted the challenge, and in the process probed the very nature of leadership in a community of believer.

“Because leadership is necessarily an exercise of authority, it easily shifts into a an exercise of power. but the minute it does that, it begins to inflict damage on both the leader and the led. Paul, studying Jesus, had learned a king of leadership in which he managed to stay out of the way so that the others could deal with God without having to go through him. All who are called to exercise leadership in whatever capacity–parent or coach, pastor or president, teacher or manager–can be grateful to Paul for this letter, and to the Corinthians for provoking it.”

As leaders, coaches, teachers, and parents, let’s see what each of us can learn from this journey through 2 Corinthians! I have played “wack a mole” many times as I try to resolve one problem before another pops up. I am sure I am not the only one! Agreed?

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Dear Heavenly Father, This study of Your Word as a leader, teacher, parent and grandparent comes at just the right time in my life. I’m ready to learn! Bring it on. Transform my heart…but do it gently. I am weak, but You are my strength. Help us all to be and become more like You, dear Jesus.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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GOD BRINGS IT ALL TOGETHER

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GOD BRINGS IT ALL TOGETHER

Being and Becoming Christian

There are people who can organize projects in ways to reach the greatest potential possible from those they serve. Paul was one of those people. My mom was one of those people. Dad stood in awe of her. She would have a plan from start to finish no matter what the task might be as a family, as a church group, or at her work. But, it was her motivation that I most admired. “If we do this, we can help more people in the process” was her mantra.

To be organized in ministry is not to be cold, unfriendly, running it like a secular business for profit, it is to ask God for the plan and how to accomplish it, then bring people around you with all kinds of gifts and abilities to help you achieve it. God gave Paul that ability. Paul had the right motivation and carried out his call of God in such an organized manner that Christianity grew exponentially. Who has that kind of motivation with organization today?

As we read the end of Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians, I am admiring his attention to details, his love for people with his desire to see them again, his encouragement to those who work along side him and his love for God who leads his every move. Read and see what you think…

1 Corinthians 16, The Message
1-4 Regarding the relief offering for poor Christians that is being collected, you get the same instructions I gave the churches in Galatia. Every Sunday each of you make an offering and put it in safekeeping. Be as generous as you can. When I get there you’ll have it ready, and I won’t have to make a special appeal. Then after I arrive, I’ll write letters authorizing whomever you delegate, and send them off to Jerusalem to deliver your gift. If you think it best that I go along, I’ll be glad to travel with them.

5-9 I plan to visit you after passing through northern Greece. I won’t be staying long there, but maybe I can stay awhile with you—maybe even spend the winter? Then you could give me a good send-off, wherever I may be headed next. I don’t want to just drop by in between other “primary” destinations. I want a good, long, leisurely visit. If the Master agrees, we’ll have it! For the present, I’m staying right here in Ephesus. A huge door of opportunity for good work has opened up here. (There is also mushrooming opposition.)

10-11 If Timothy shows up, take good care of him. Make him feel completely at home among you. He works so hard for the Master, just as I do. Don’t let anyone disparage him. After a while, send him on to me with your blessing. Tell him I’m expecting him, and any friends he has with him.

12 About our friend Apollos, I’ve done my best to get him to pay you a visit, but haven’t talked him into it yet. He doesn’t think this is the right time. But there will be a “right time.”

13-14 Keep your eyes open, hold tight to your convictions, give it all you’ve got, be resolute, and love without stopping.

15-16 Would you do me a favor, friends, and give special recognition to the family of Stephanas? You know, they were among the first converts in Greece, and they’ve put themselves out, serving Christians ever since then. I want you to honor and look up to people like that: companions and workers who show us how to do it, giving us something to aspire to.

17-18 I want you to know how delighted I am to have Stephanas, Fortunatus, and Achaicus here with me. They partially make up for your absence! They’ve refreshed me by keeping me in touch with you. Be proud that you have people like this among you.

19 The churches here in western Asia send greetings.

Aquila, Priscilla, and the church that meets in their house say hello.

20 All the friends here say hello.

Pass the greetings around with holy embraces!

21 And I, Paul—in my own handwriting!—send you my regards.

22 If anyone won’t love the Master, throw him out. Make room for the Master!

23 Our Master Jesus has his arms wide open for you.

24 And I love all of you in the Messiah, in Jesus.

What do we learn?
–How to be organized with a heart bursting with love for people we work alongside for the glory of God!
–How to encourage others in the work to help others know the Master Jesus Christ!
–How to organize in ways that exponentially make a difference for the Kingdom!
–FOCUS on God’s plan, His way, His will, in His time.

WOW, there is a lot in these last words of salutation from Paul. That is no coincident. We can learn a lot from Paul whom Jesus used to teach us how to build His church. Paul, one of many, who were motivated and knew God would bring all things together “for the good” of those who believed.

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Dear Heavenly Father, When I think that a few words of goodbyes of Paul would be of less importance, you used those words to teach us. Once again, You teach us a great lesson about where our focus should be. Wow, thank you, for reminding us of that organization is a better way to be more effective if it is Your plan. We pray for YOUR plan for our lives. Be in every detail as You were with Paul.

We pray for the motivation of those around us as well as our own. May all we think, say, organize and do be according to Your will and plan, help others, bring You glory and make you smile.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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NO RESURRECTION? NO HOPE!

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NO RESURRECTION? NO HOPE!

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Shortly after a few days of my mom’s passing, my heartbroken dad had a dream. He told me that mom assured him that all was well. He said she was smiling and said, “Vernon, It is beautiful here. I am beautiful.” “You will see when He comes for you.” (Mom never felt good about her overweight body on earth or about herself, so this was not a vain thing to say but a relief knowing she was accepted in heaven.) Yes, dad was emotional, but I don’t doubt that this was God’s Holy Spirit’s way of reminding him of the hope we have in resurrection of us all and that our old, worn-out bodies will be changed in an instant to a body that will live forever praising God, The Father with Jesus Christ, His Son who made resurrection possible.

Read all of 1 Corinthians 15 as Paul makes it crystal clear from God as to what resurrection means for us. Our work on earth is to this end which is really the beginning of life forever! If we do not believe in the resurrection then there is nothing else that makes sense! No resurrection? Then where is the hope, faith, trust from Jesus work on the cross, in the grave and in the resurrection from that grave. He lives! We live! On the bad days, we must remember, we will be changed in a moment, a nano second from this life to the next. WHAT do we believe? Do we live like we believe it?

Here is the final pitch by God’s Holy Spirit working through Paul to help us understand why we believe in the resurrection and for what reasons…but read the whole chapter…maybe it will cause you to shout for joy as it did me! Dad is now with mom in glory. I shout because I believe!!

1 Corinthians 15, The Message…of Resurrection in Christ!

42-44 This image of planting a dead seed and raising a live plant is a mere sketch at best, but perhaps it will help in approaching the mystery of the resurrection body—but only if you keep in mind that when we’re raised, we’re raised for good, alive forever! The corpse that’s planted is no beauty, but when it’s raised, it’s glorious. Put in the ground weak, it comes up powerful. The seed sown is natural; the seed grown is supernatural—same seed, same body, but what a difference from when it goes down in physical mortality to when it is raised up in spiritual immortality!

45-49 We follow this sequence in Scripture: The First Adam received life, the Last Adam is a life-giving Spirit. Physical life comes first, then spiritual—a firm base shaped from the earth, a final completion coming out of heaven. The First Man was made out of earth, and people since then are earthy; the Second Man was made out of heaven, and people now can be heavenly. In the same way that we’ve worked from our earthy origins, let’s embrace our heavenly ends.

50 I need to emphasize, friends, that our natural, earthy lives don’t in themselves lead us by their very nature into the kingdom of God. Their very “nature” is to die, so how could they “naturally” end up in the Life kingdom?

51-57 But let me tell you something wonderful, a mystery I’ll probably never fully understand. We’re not all going to die—but we are all going to be changed. You hear a blast to end all blasts from a trumpet, and in the time that you look up and blink your eyes—it’s over. On signal from that trumpet from heaven, the dead will be up and out of their graves, beyond the reach of death, never to die again. At the same moment and in the same way, we’ll all be changed. In the resurrection scheme of things, this has to happen: everything perishable taken off the shelves and replaced by the imperishable, this mortal replaced by the immortal. Then the saying will come true:

Death swallowed by triumphant Life!
Who got the last word, oh, Death?
Oh, Death, who’s afraid of you now?
It was sin that made death so frightening and law-code guilt that gave sin its leverage, its destructive power. But now in a single victorious stroke of Life, all three—sin, guilt, death—are gone, the gift of our Master, Jesus Christ. Thank God!

58 With all this going for us, my dear, dear friends, stand your ground. And don’t hold back. Throw yourselves into the work of the Master, confident that nothing you do for him is a waste of time or effort.

What do we learn?
–We have a hope that we will all be raised with Christ! HE is our hope and our stay.
–NOTHING, absolutely nothing that we do to bring someone else to this hope of resurrection is a waste of time! (That’s why I write each morning!)
–Live as resurrected people of God! Don’t hold back!

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Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for the comfort of Your Holy Spirit as I mourn, with hope, the passing of both parents as you reassure me through your word of the resurrection power that awaits all of us. Thank you for being with us in “the wait” for you to come. Thank you for giving us a work to do in the wait. Help us to stay focused on You. In Jesus Name, Amen I believe.

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OUR VERY LIVES DEPEND ON LOVE, GOD’S LOVE

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OUR VERY LIVES DEPEND ON LOVE, GOD’S LOVE

Being and Becoming Christian

What I need to know…

Know God. God is love.
Know Yourself. God’s love is in us. Live love.
Know Your Message. In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. Because of love, Jesus came from God, moved into the neighborhood to live among us, to teach us and then lay down his life for us so that we can see God, know Him more and love Him back.
Know Your Audience. From a heart of love, while living a life of love. fine tune your message so that His Word is expressed in ways that others, seeking Him, understand it.

This may sound very simple, but it is the foundation of my life.

Paul knows God well. He knows what God has given him to be and do. He knows his message well for it is from God. He is very sensitive to his audience in each of his letters to the churches and writes to fit the audience so that there will be no misunderstanding of how to continue being and beocming Christian. Listen in…

1 Corinthians 14, The Message

1-3 Go after a life of love as if your life depended on it—because it does. Give yourselves to the gifts God gives you. Most of all, try to proclaim his truth. If you praise him in the private language of tongues, God understands you but no one else does, for you are sharing intimacies just between you and him. But when you proclaim his truth in everyday speech, you’re letting others in on the truth so that they can grow and be strong and experience his presence with you.

Paul spends the rest of the chapter getting people to understand that their intimate praying with God is not helpful to others to know Him if they don’t understand what you are saying.

What do we learn?
–We need to evaluate our own “talk” and ask ourselves, is what I’m saying out loud helpful to others who are seeking to know God for themselves?
–How many times to we babble on with “church talk” as if we have greater knowledge over a new believer. Is making ourselves feel “higher” because we have learned the language of the church more important than working to make our “talk” more helpful to others trying to figure out how to be and become more like Christ?

Paul explains further…
“So where does it get you, all this speaking in tongues no one understands? It doesn’t help believers, and it only give s unbelievers something to gawk at. Plain truth-speaking, on the other hand, goes straight to the heart of believers and doesn’t get in the way of unbelievers…be courteous and considerate in everything.” 1 Cor 14, The Message

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Dear Heavenly Father, Save us from ourselves. Help us to live a life of love today as if our lives depended on it…because it does.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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THE MOST EXCELLENT WAY

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THE MOST EXCELLENT WAY

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Who doesn’t want to do a task well? My mom used to tell me often, if you are not going to do it well, then why bother doing it at all? Yes, she was a perfectionist. Growing up, I was trained that even making a bed could be done well, with “hospital corners” and straight seems. I still think of her briefly when I make a bed. Silly, isn’t it? But underneath the surface, of training me to do household chores, was the motivation of teaching me a right attitude to have while doing it. She always wanted to do the best for her family.

Paul does the same for the Corinthians…and us. With clarity and simple teaching, in ways we all understand it, he outlines WHO we are, WHO we belong it, WHAT our part is in the Body of Christ, and HOW we are to love. His “sermon” was perfectly outlined with presenting the “should” with a “how”. So, there is no stone left unturned in our understanding of “the most excellent way.

Remember the background information of chapter 12?
–“Each person is given something to do that shows who God is: Everyone gets in on it, everyone benefits.”
–“You are Christ’s body–that’s who you are!”
–“Only as you accept your part of that body does your ‘part’ mean anything.”
–Stop competing for the so-called “important parts”.

Paul stops in the middle of his letter to remind us HOW our part responds to the whole…from the root of God’s love deeply embedded in our hard drives! For without love, all we say we are, all we do “for the Lord”, is nothing but empty words and actions.

We serve because we love. Simple, yet profound. Love gets lost in our busyness of life. Deeds become automatic. Whining takes the place of blessings for doing a work well, in “the most excellent way”. So, if this was important for Paul to lay out this “far better way” for the Corinthian church, then it is probably good for us to go over this again…

1 Corinthians 13, The Message
The Way of Love
13 If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate.

2 If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing.

3-7 If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love.

Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.
Love doesn’t strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.

8-10 Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled.

11 When I was an infant at my mother’s breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good.

12 We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!

13 But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love.

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What do we learn?
–Trust steadily in God, Hope unswervingly, Love extravagantly.

Dear Heavenly Father, Your Word, expressed through Paul to Your Body, read at so many weddings, is filled with profound Truth about being and becoming maturing Christians. YOUR love for us is excellent, unconditional, forgiving, and is the supreme example of how we should love others. Help us to mature in Your love. In Jesus Name, Amen

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