How many times did we hear our parents or teachers ask this of us after misbehaving?  As children, most reprimands began with questions like, “What were you thinking?” These and other popular questions asked upon rude and weird misbehaving are asked of children who really do not have the answers.  The problem is they weren’t thinking.  Children see what others are doing and mimic it in their way or simply act first with no thought to consequences.  They don’t plan, they just act without really realizing what might come next after doing the deed. 

“What do you have to say for yourself” is a question of reprimand more than a probing for real answers. As parents, we don’t really want an answer from our child, we want them to know how wrong the act was.  If caught “red-handed”, we are not really wanting them to give us a summation of what they will say in their defense.  We are ready to act as judge, jury and executioner.  As a teacher I learned that asking “Why?” is not really productive either.  Asking why was merely amusing to me as a first grade teacher as the child would make up a story of why but in the process would forget what they did wrong.  But the stories were interesting to say the least.

Now we come to the story of God performing great acts through a man called Stephen.  Stephen was one of those chosen from the followers of Jesus to lead food distribution fairly among the widows.  (Read Acts 6:5-6).  He was described as a trusted man, “a man full of faith and the Holy Spirit”.  We read that he was one of the first chosen for this audacious task. 

But then trouble arose among the jealous and envious of Stephen.  Stephen did what God wanted, “brimming with God’s grace and energy”.  If I were to say this does not happen in our churches today, I would be lying.  Satan is still at work using the same tireless, limited tools of gossip.  Gossip can kill the church if we allow it.  Many hard working, God loving people, brimming with God’s grace and energy are still struck down by evil’s tools that tempt us to look inside ourselves causing the sin of selfishness that gives birth to jealousy that grows into gossip.  Gossip tears down what God is doing in and through other people.  Gossip hinders the work of God.  Gossip kills those who succumb to it.

Stephen, who “had the face of an angel”, was stoned with rocks of hate, jealousy, envy, selfishness with gossiping men and women who twisted his words and belittled God’s work through him.  Evil gossip killed Stephen.

Gossip stills maims and kills followers today in churches built upon Jesus, God’s Son who loved us enough to die for our sins.  Gossip is one of those sins. 

“What do we have to say for ourselves?”

ACTS—God’s Acts through His Disciples

The Story of Stephen

Acts 6:8-15 – Acts 7, The Message

8-10 Stephen, brimming with God’s grace and energy, was doing wonderful things among the people, unmistakable signs that God was among them. But then some men from the meeting place whose membership was made up of freed slaves, Cyrenians, Alexandrians, and some others from Cilicia and Asia, went up against him trying to argue him down. But they were no match for his wisdom and spirit when he spoke.

11 So in secret they bribed men to lie: “We heard him cursing Moses and God.”

12-14 That stirred up the people, the religious leaders, and religion scholars. They grabbed Stephen and took him before the High Council. They put forward their bribed witnesses to testify: “This man talks nonstop against this Holy Place and God’s Law. We even heard him say that Jesus of Nazareth would tear this place down and throw out all the customs Moses gave us.”

15 As all those who sat on the High Council looked at Stephen, they found they couldn’t take their eyes off him—his face was like the face of an angel!

Stephen, Full of the Holy Spirit

Then the Chief Priest said, “What do you have to say for yourself?”

2-3 Stephen replied, “Friends, fathers, and brothers, the God of glory appeared to our father Abraham when he was still in Mesopotamia, before the move to Haran, and told him, ‘Leave your country and family and go to the land I’ll show you.’

4-7 “So he left the country of the Chaldees and moved to Haran. After the death of his father, he immigrated to this country where you now live, but God gave him nothing, not so much as a foothold. He did promise to give the country to him and his son later on, even though Abraham had no son at the time. God let him know that his offspring would move to an alien country where they would be enslaved and brutalized for four hundred years. ‘But,’ God said, ‘I will step in and take care of those slaveholders and bring my people out so they can worship me in this place.’

“Then he made a covenant with him and signed it in Abraham’s flesh by circumcision. When Abraham had his son Isaac, within eight days he reproduced the sign of circumcision in him. Isaac became father of Jacob, and Jacob father of twelve ‘fathers,’ each faithfully passing on the covenant sign.

9-10 “But then those ‘fathers,’ burning up with jealousy, sent Joseph off to Egypt as a slave. God was right there with him, though—he not only rescued him from all his troubles but brought him to the attention of Pharaoh, king of Egypt. He was so impressed with Joseph that he put him in charge of the whole country, including his own personal affairs.

11-15 “Later a famine descended on that entire region, stretching from Egypt to Canaan, bringing terrific hardship. Our hungry fathers looked high and low for food, but the cupboard was bare. Jacob heard there was food in Egypt and sent our fathers to scout it out. Having confirmed the report, they went back to Egypt a second time to get food. On that visit, Joseph revealed his true identity to his brothers and introduced the Jacob family to Pharaoh. Then Joseph sent for his father, Jacob, and everyone else in the family, seventy-five in all. That’s how the Jacob family got to Egypt.

15-16 “Jacob died, and our fathers after him. They were taken to Shechem and buried in the tomb for which Abraham paid a good price to the sons of Hamor.

17-19 “When the four hundred years were nearly up, the time God promised Abraham for deliverance, the population of our people in Egypt had become very large. And there was now a king over Egypt who had never heard of Joseph. He exploited our race mercilessly. He went so far as forcing us to abandon our newborn infants, exposing them to the elements to die a cruel death.

20-22 “In just such a time Moses was born, a most beautiful baby. He was hidden at home for three months. When he could be hidden no longer, he was put outside—and immediately rescued by Pharaoh’s daughter, who mothered him as her own son. Moses was educated in the best schools in Egypt. He was equally impressive as a thinker and an athlete.

23-26 “When he was forty years old, he wondered how everything was going with his Hebrew kin and went out to look things over. He saw an Egyptian abusing one of them and stepped in, avenging his underdog brother by knocking the Egyptian flat. He thought his brothers would be glad that he was on their side, and even see him as an instrument of God to deliver them. But they didn’t see it that way. The next day two of them were fighting and he tried to break it up, told them to shake hands and get along with each other: ‘Friends, you are brothers, why are you beating up on each other?’

27-29 “The one who had started the fight said, ‘Who put you in charge of us? Are you going to kill me like you killed that Egyptian yesterday?’ When Moses heard that, realizing that the word was out, he ran for his life and lived in exile over in Midian. During the years of exile, two sons were born to him.

30-32 “Forty years later, in the wilderness of Mount Sinai, an angel appeared to him in the guise of flames of a burning bush. Moses, not believing his eyes, went up to take a closer look. He heard God’s voice: ‘I am the God of your fathers, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.’ Frightened nearly out of his skin, Moses shut his eyes and turned away.

33-34 “God said, ‘Kneel and pray. You are in a holy place, on holy ground. I’ve seen the agony of my people in Egypt. I’ve heard their groans. I’ve come to help them. So get yourself ready; I’m sending you back to Egypt.’

35-39 “This is the same Moses whom they earlier rejected, saying, ‘Who put you in charge of us?’ This is the Moses that God, using the angel flaming in the burning bush, sent back as ruler and redeemer. He led them out of their slavery. He did wonderful things, setting up God-signs all through Egypt, down at the Red Sea, and out in the wilderness for forty years. This is the Moses who said to his congregation, ‘God will raise up a prophet just like me from your descendants.’ This is the Moses who stood between the angel speaking at Sinai and your fathers assembled in the wilderness and took the life-giving words given to him and handed them over to us, words our fathers would have nothing to do with.

39-41 “They craved the old Egyptian ways, whining to Aaron, ‘Make us gods we can see and follow. This Moses who got us out here miles from nowhere—who knows what’s happened to him!’ That was the time when they made a calf-idol, brought sacrifices to it, and congratulated each other on the wonderful religious program they had put together.

42-43 “God wasn’t at all pleased; but he let them do it their way, worship every new god that came down the pike—and live with the consequences, consequences described by the prophet Amos:

Did you bring me offerings of animals and grains
    those forty wilderness years, O Israel?
Hardly. You were too busy building shrines
    to war gods, to sex goddesses,
Worshiping them with all your might.
    That’s why I put you in exile in Babylon.

44-47 “And all this time our ancestors had a tent shrine for true worship, made to the exact specifications God provided Moses. They had it with them as they followed Joshua, when God cleared the land of pagans, and still had it right down to the time of David. David asked God for a permanent place for worship. But Solomon built it.

48-50 “Yet that doesn’t mean that Most High God lives in a building made by carpenters and masons. The prophet Isaiah put it well when he wrote,

“Heaven is my throne room;
    I rest my feet on earth.
So what kind of house
    will you build me?” says God.
“Where I can get away and relax?
    It’s already built, and I built it.”

51-53 “And you continue, so bullheaded! Calluses on your hearts, flaps on your ears! Deliberately ignoring the Holy Spirit, you’re just like your ancestors. Was there ever a prophet who didn’t get the same treatment? Your ancestors killed anyone who dared talk about the coming of the Just One. And you’ve kept up the family tradition—traitors and murderers, all of you. You had God’s Law handed to you by angels—gift-wrapped!—and you squandered it!”

54-56 At that point they went wild, a rioting mob of catcalls and whistles and invective. But Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, hardly noticed—he only had eyes for God, whom he saw in all his glory with Jesus standing at his side. He said, “Oh! I see heaven wide open and the Son of Man standing at God’s side!”

57-58 Yelling and hissing, the mob drowned him out. Now in full stampede, they dragged him out of town and pelted him with rocks. The ringleaders took off their coats and asked a young man named Saul to watch them.

59-60 As the rocks rained down, Stephen prayed, “Master Jesus, take my life.” Then he knelt down, praying loud enough for everyone to hear, “Master, don’t blame them for this sin”—his last words. Then he died.

Saul was right there, congratulating the killers.


Stephen did not defend himself to the gossipers but stayed focused on the history of God’s acts to His people.  Staying focused on God, Jesus, and Holy Spirit, Stephen’s accusers “were no match for his wisdom and spirit when he spoke”.  Stay focused on God, not the gossip.

Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, told the council what he knew, Truth–not what he didn’t know, gossip.  “As all those who sat on the High Council looked at Stephen, they found they couldn’t take their eyes off him—his face was like the face of an angel!”  No doubt!

Stephen told Truth keeping his eyes on Jesus.  “At that point they went wild, a rioting mob of catcalls and whistles and invective. But Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, hardly noticed—he only had eyes for God, whom he saw in all his glory with Jesus standing at his side. He said, “Oh! I see heaven wide open and the Son of Man standing at God’s side!”  In the midst of gossip and ridicule, focus on God and the voices fade in the background.  God needs no defense.  Stick to the Truth.  God is with us when we do.

Like Jesus on the cross prayed, “Forgive them for the know not what they do”, Stephen prays for his enemies.  Stephen knew The Law, the Story of God, passed down through the generations well, as he recites it without skipping a beat.  He also knew Fulfillment and Completion of God’s Law—namely Jesus, Son of God, Savior and Lord. 

Gossip may have killed the body but did not take the soul of Stephen.  The acts of God were not stopped.  Evil has limited power; only want we allow.  God is all power.  Tapping into the power of God is beyond our wildest thinking. 

A man named Saul held Stephen’s coat as he watched the stoning.  We will learn more about this young man called Saul later.  God acts in Saul.


We are appalled by the twisted minds of jealous people which led to the stoning of your precious Stephen.  We are even more appalled by the enemy’s tools that are still used today to divide people, cause wars, drive hatred to the end result of murder.

No one is perfect but You, Lord.  You are the only reason, the only answer, that sets us free of these sins because of your work on the cross.  Today, help us not to return to our sin that holds us in bondage while hurting others around us.  Help us to run from the temptations that rain down on us daily.  Keep us close to you in prayer conversation and communion with you that withstands the devil’s stones of his character meant to mislead us and eventually kill.  Grow and mature your character traits in us.

And Lord, help us to run from gossip.  Words of gossip hurt as deeply as physical pain.  Words of hate last in our memory bank forever, it seems.  May the hurt be reminders of avoiding gossip at all cost.  Thank you, Lord for this lesson today.  We’re not there yet, so continue your transforming work in us.

In Jesus Name, For Your Glory, Amen.  I believe.

About randscallawayffm

Randy and Susan co founded Finding Focus Ministries in 2006. Their goal as former full time pastors, is to serve and provide spiritual encouragement and focus to those on the "front lines" of ministry. Extensive experience being on both sides of ministry, paid and volunteer, on the mission fields of other countries as well as the United States, helps them bring a different perspective to those who need it most. Need a lift? Call us 260 229 2276.
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