“The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”.
When we observe life, while living life ourselves, we might discover that some of us have to work harder than others to account for the sin of deceit in this world. Deception and lies bring ruin and calamity in all who know the deceiver. Lying to get ahead is not really getting ahead. Lying will always whiplash back to the liar with a harsh sting. Deception is a dish served hot but comes back to deceivers cold and distasteful.
In this part of the story, Rebekah deceives Isaac. Jacob deceives his brother Esau. Friends, we’ve heard the story before. But we must go deeper into what results from deception. Jealousy, bitterness, envy, hate rises up causing thoughts of murder. As we read, we realize and remember the truth of scripture; unbridled sin gives birth to more sin, even death. Jesus’ brother, James writes, “These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.”
Genesis 27, The Message
When Isaac had become an old man and was nearly blind, he called his eldest son, Esau, and said, “My son.”
2-4 “I’m an old man,” he said; “I might die any day now. Do me a favor: Get your quiver of arrows and your bow and go out in the country and hunt me some game. Then fix me a hearty meal, the kind that you know I like, and bring it to me to eat so that I can give you my personal blessing before I die.”
5-7 Rebekah was eavesdropping as Isaac spoke to his son Esau. As soon as Esau had gone off to the country to hunt game for his father, Rebekah spoke to her son Jacob. “I just overheard your father talking with your brother, Esau. He said, ‘Bring me some game and fix me a hearty meal so that I can eat and bless you with God’s blessing before I die.’
8-10 “Now, my son, listen to me. Do what I tell you. Go to the flock and get me two young goats. Pick the best; I’ll prepare them into a hearty meal, the kind that your father loves. Then you’ll take it to your father, he’ll eat and bless you before he dies.”
11-12 “But Mother,” Jacob said, “my brother Esau is a hairy man and I have smooth skin. What happens if my father touches me? He’ll think I’m playing games with him. I’ll bring down a curse on myself instead of a blessing.”
13 “If it comes to that,” said his mother, “I’ll take the curse on myself. Now, just do what I say. Go and get the goats.”
14 So he went and got them and brought them to his mother and she cooked a hearty meal, the kind his father loved so much.
15-17 Rebekah took the dress-up clothes of her older son Esau and put them on her younger son Jacob. She took the goatskins and covered his hands and the smooth nape of his neck. Then she placed the hearty meal she had fixed and fresh bread she’d baked into the hands of her son Jacob.
18 He went to his father and said, “My father!”
“Yes?” he said. “Which son are you?”
19 Jacob answered his father, “I’m your firstborn son Esau. I did what you told me. Come now; sit up and eat of my game so you can give me your personal blessing.”
20 Isaac said, “So soon? How did you get it so quickly?”
“Because your God cleared the way for me.”
21 Isaac said, “Come close, son; let me touch you—are you really my son Esau?”
22-23 So Jacob moved close to his father Isaac. Isaac felt him and said, “The voice is Jacob’s voice but the hands are the hands of Esau.” He didn’t recognize him because his hands were hairy, like his brother Esau’s.
23-24 But as he was about to bless him he pressed him, “You’re sure? You are my son Esau?”
“Yes. I am.”
25 Isaac said, “Bring the food so I can eat of my son’s game and give you my personal blessing.” Jacob brought it to him and he ate. He also brought him wine and he drank.
26 Then Isaac said, “Come close, son, and kiss me.”
27-29 He came close and kissed him and Isaac smelled the smell of his clothes. Finally, he blessed him,
Ahhh. The smell of my son
is like the smell of the open country
blessed by God.
May God give you
of Heaven’s dew
and Earth’s bounty of grain and wine.
May peoples serve you
and nations honor you.
You will master your brothers,
and your mother’s sons will honor you.
Those who curse you will be cursed,
those who bless you will be blessed.
30-31 And then right after Isaac had blessed Jacob and Jacob had left, Esau showed up from the hunt. He also had prepared a hearty meal. He came to his father and said, “Let my father get up and eat of his son’s game, that he may give me his personal blessing.”
32 His father Isaac said, “And who are you?”
“I am your son, your firstborn, Esau.”
33 Isaac started to tremble, shaking violently. He said, “Then who hunted game and brought it to me? I finished the meal just now, before you walked in. And I blessed him—he’s blessed for good!”
34 Esau, hearing his father’s words, sobbed violently and most bitterly, and cried to his father, “My father! Can’t you also bless me?”
35 “Your brother,” he said, “came here falsely and took your blessing.”
36 Esau said, “Not for nothing was he named Jacob, the Heel. Twice now he’s tricked me: first he took my birthright and now he’s taken my blessing.”
He begged, “Haven’t you kept back any blessing for me?”
37 Isaac answered Esau, “I’ve made him your master, and all his brothers his servants, and lavished grain and wine on him. I’ve given it all away. What’s left for you, my son?”
38 “But don’t you have just one blessing for me, Father? Oh, bless me my father! Bless me!” Esau sobbed inconsolably.
39-40 Isaac said to him,
You’ll live far from Earth’s bounty,
remote from Heaven’s dew.
You’ll live by your sword, hand-to-mouth,
and you’ll serve your brother.
But when you can’t take it any more
you’ll break loose and run free.
41 Esau seethed in anger against Jacob because of the blessing his father had given him; he brooded, “The time for mourning my father’s death is close. And then I’ll kill my brother Jacob.”
42-45 When these words of her older son Esau were reported to Rebekah, she called her younger son Jacob and said, “Your brother Esau is plotting vengeance against you. He’s going to kill you. Son, listen to me. Get out of here. Run for your life to Haran, to my brother Laban. Live with him for a while until your brother cools down, until his anger subsides and he forgets what you did to him. I’ll then send for you and bring you back. Why should I lose both of you the same day?”
46 Rebekah spoke to Isaac, “I’m sick to death of these Hittite women. If Jacob also marries a native Hittite woman, why live?”
WHAT DO WE LEARN—HOW DO WE RESPOND?
If we live life long enough, we also discover that God looks on the foolishness of our behaviors with a call to repent, to stop and turn from what is bad for us to what is good in us. God provides the Way. It is Jesus. Jesus said, “I am the Way, the Truth and the Life”. “No one comes to the Father except through Me.” (John 14:6).
God will also lay responsibilities on us so that we can grow in righteousness (our made right with God action of repentance). These responsibilities match what God has created in us. We are not perfect but we are made holy, brought back to righteousness, through God’s Spirit in our repentance, our turning from the world’s way of thinking to God’s way of thinking. Therefore, we turn from bad living to Holy Spirit living. Paul explains:
“When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures,idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,gentleness, and self-control.” Galatians 5:19-23
Those who have realized God’s deep love, believe in God, accepting and believing that Jesus has died for all our sin, hear God speak once more. We are given a choice to turn our hearts, minds and souls over to God’s will and purposes. When we do God turns our bad choices of the past, changes our minds, and prepares us to His greater good, the real ordained purpose of our lives. Not only that, God takes the ruin and ashes of our destructive behaviors and makes life beautiful again. Trust Him. Yes, the path will be hard, but worth every effort to fulfill God’s purpose in us.
What deception burns down in and around us, God rebuilds into a beautiful life of Truth when we turn to Him. This is a time to burn those bridges of lies and deception and cross over the bridge God built through Jesus Christ, His Son.
God is not finished with Jacob or Esau! God meets Jacob in the desert while he is on the run from Esau who wants to kill him! Yes, the plot thickens in the coming days ahead. Stay tuned! We will learn so much more!
Here is a preview: The deceiver is deceived! How will Jacob handle it?
When will we learn that deception just leads to more lies and harder work to cover them up? What fools we are to fall for lies from the Father of lies, our real enemy, the one who hates you and wants us to hate you. But I cannot. I choose you. I love you because you first loved me. When I fell down, you picked me up. When I was confused, you gave me understanding. When I sinned, you forgave me completely. When I came to crossroads of decisions, we gave me wisdom when I asked for it. Why follow anyone else but You who loves us best and forever? I love you. I need you. I trust in you. You are Life.
In Jesus Name, Amen