Proverbs – Life SkillsThe opening sentence in The Purpose Driven Life, by Rick Warren, says it all. “It’s not about you.” If we take life seriously, like this Proverb of wise words says, and wrap our minds around who is really in charge only then can we begin to understand our created purpose.
“The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness. It’s far grater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams and ambitions. If you want to know why you were placed on this planet, you must begin with God. You were born BY his purpose and FOR his purpose.” (Warren)
We search for good. God IS good. We search for wisdom. God IS wisdom. We want a plan. God IS the plan. We want to know our purpose, that gives meaning to life. God IS the purpose that means everything and IS life.Are we beginning to catch up to what God is saying to us? God is the one and only “I AM” who is in charge. God created all, and is in all. He created a plan with purpose for each one of us. God also has a plan for right living, to be at His best for His glory. When we fail in living right, God also created a plan, from the beginning of creation, for us to be forgiven, set right and be reconciled to Him when we sin. That plan has a name. His name is Jesus.
That’s why it’s not about you or me. Life begins with God. Life IS God.
Proverb 16, The Message
Everything with a Place and a Purpose

Mortals make elaborate plans,
but God has the last word.
2 Humans are satisfied with whatever looks good;
God probes for what is good.
3 Put God in charge of your work,
then what you’ve planned will take place.
4 God made everything with a place and purpose;
even the wicked are included—but for judgment.
5 God can’t stomach arrogance or pretense; believe me, he’ll put those upstarts in their place.
6 Guilt is banished through love and truth;
Fear-of-God deflects evil.
7 When God approves of your life,
even your enemies will end up shaking your hand.
8 Far better to be right and poor
than to be wrong and rich.
9 We plan the way we want to live,
but only God makes us able to live it.
It Pays to Take Life Seriously10 A good leader motivates,
doesn’t mislead, doesn’t exploit.
11 God cares about honesty in the workplace;
your business is his business.
12 Good leaders abhor wrongdoing of all kinds;
sound leadership has a moral foundation.
13 Good leaders cultivate honest speech;
they love advisors who tell them the truth.
14 An intemperate leader wreaks havoc in lives; you’re smart to stay clear of someone like that.
15 Good-tempered leaders invigorate lives;
they’re like spring rain and sunshine.
16 Get wisdom—it’s worth more than money;
choose insight over income every time.
17 The road of right living bypasses evil;
watch your step and save your life.
18 First pride, then the crash— the bigger the ego, the harder the fall.
19 It’s better to live humbly among the poor
than to live it up among the rich and famous.
20 It pays to take life seriously;
things work out when you trust in God.
21 A wise person gets known for insight;
gracious words add to one’s reputation.
22 True intelligence is a spring of fresh water,
while fools sweat it out the hard way.
23 They make a lot of sense, these wise folks; whenever they speak, their reputation increases.
24 Gracious speech is like clover honey—
good taste to the soul, quick energy for the body.
25 There’s a way that looks harmless enough;
look again—it leads straight to hell.
26 Appetite is an incentive to work;
hunger makes you work all the harder.
27 Mean people spread mean gossip;
their words smart and burn.
28 Troublemakers start fights;
gossips break up friendships.
29 Calloused climbers betray their very own friends;
they’d stab their own grandmothers in the back.
30 A shifty eye betrays an evil intention; a clenched jaw signals trouble ahead.
31 Gray hair is a mark of distinction,
the award for a God-loyal life.
32 Moderation is better than muscle,
self-control better than political power.
33 Make your motions and cast your votes,
but God has the final say.
WHAT DO WE LEARN ABOUT LEADING OTHERS?
God’s leaders develop His characteristics:–They motivate, don’t manipulate.
–Explain instead of exploit or exaggerate.
–Honest, sincere, transparent.
–Seekers of honest advice.
–Walk the moral high ground
–Inspire and invigorate lives
–Seek wisdom over wealth
–Ego is left behind.
–Gracious, kind, loving words of wisdom are their mantra.
–They give life to those around them.
God’s Leaders know Who has the final say. They are completely comfortable and confident knowing that He is in control and rely on this truth each day. This is faith and trust in the One who loves us most.
Dear Heavenly Father,As we seek your wisdom, you are there to show us the way, your way. Thank you for teaching us through your word today with clearly stated characteristics that you are consistently developing in those who believe and want to grow and mature. Thank you for Your Presence. Thank you, Holy Spirit, for your guidance. Correction means you care enough about us to lead us to your intended purpose for our lives. Thank you for caring. Thank you for saving my soul.
Life IS all about you. You are God and i am not.
In Jesus Name, Amen
INVITATION: A group of ladies, wanting to grow in Christ, meet electronically each Tuesday evening at 7PM via Zoom to encourage each other. We are reading a Proverb a day as well as reading The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. YOU ARE INVITED to join us! Message me at susan.callaway@thepointechurch.net and you will be given the code to come in. You will enjoy our lively discussions!
Proverbs – Life Skills
Proverb 15, The Message
6 The lives of God-loyal people flourish;
16 A simple life in the Fear-of-God
22 Refuse good advice and watch your plans fail;
28 Prayerful answers come from God-loyal people;
31 Listen to good advice if you want to live well,

Hate cannot coexist with His created purpose for us. He wants His best for us and for all the other believers around us. But, alas, we seem to be driven to all that is not His best. Fools hate. Fools say there is no God. Fools assume the worst in others. Fools only love themselves. Fools do not listen to anyone but themselves and other fools. Evil drives fools to eternal destruction. It is a quick, easy trip.
God is wisdom. Jesus displayed God’s wisdom. Jesus is wisdom. Wisdom shows us the path to understanding all that God is and all that God wants to give His children who believe Him. Wisdom gives insight that trumps our human assumptions of what we think is really going on around us.
God is using all the above circumstances to turn hearts to Him. He is declaring that He is God and we are not. God delights in all the details of our lives because He loves us. He created us. He wants to give us His best. Every one of us!
Lady Wisdom builds a lovely home;
6 Cynics look high and low for wisdom—and never find it;
14 A mean person gets paid back in meanness,
19 Eventually, evil will pay tribute to good;
25 Souls are saved by truthful witness
HOLY PAUSE
Proverbs – Life Skills
God says, “To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8, NIV) Jesus, being God in human form, was the example of what pleases God in our walk, so by walking and talking like Jesus, with a sincere heart to please God, God is pleased. 

Intelligent children listen to their parents;
7 A pretentious, showy life is an empty life;
15 Sound thinking makes for gracious living,
20 Become wise by walking with the wise;
HOLY PAUSE
So how’s our walk? It depends on our relationship with God.
Our walk matters to God.
Proverbs – Life Skills
Proverbs 12, The Message
17 Truthful witness by a good person clears the air,
24 The diligent find freedom in their work;
WHAT WE LEARN…
Paul was a learner. He became a true learner when he met Christ on the road to Damacus. Jesus told him what he didn’t know and led him to salvation. It was only then did the know-it-all religious leader become the humble learner who began a loving relationship with Jesus. It was then that Paul began to learn all that Jesus wanted to teach him. Paul passed on this knowledge of Christ to others who were taught to learn as well as to pass this learning on to others. (See also 2 Timothy 2:2)
Proverbs – Life Skills
Proverbs 11, The Message
4 A thick bankroll is no help when life falls apart,
10 When it goes well for good people, the whole town cheers;
13 A gadabout gossip can’t be trusted with a secret,
17 When you’re kind to others, you help yourself;
20 God can’t stand deceivers,
24 The world of the generous gets larger and larger;
28 A life devoted to things is a dead life, a stump;
HOLY PAUSE
What happens when we follow God’s voice? What happens when we don’t?
Meditate on God’s Word. Read it, chew on it, ask God what His words mean for you. Meditation lets God speak to us!
Wise son, glad father;
7 A good and honest life is a blessed memorial;
11 The mouth of a good person is a deep, life-giving well,
The Road to Life Is a Disciplined Life
19 The more talk, the less truth;
Fear-of-God Expands Your Life

29 God is solid backing to a well-lived life,
With all the outcomes of both choices presented clearly, which choice are we following. We need to daily evaluate where we are and who we are following.
GET SMART!
But in the end, Smart got the girl and solved the case, putting the enemy where he belonged…in jail forever.
Choose wisely. Live skillfully. The result, according to Jesus is life and more life. This is what is called “abundant, expectant living”! This is love unending, joy unspeakable and full of God’s glory with the precious gift of peace that only Jesus can give. Smart or stupid?
When we have Jesus on our minds, in our hearts, with His Holy Spirit filling our souls we realize that the entire inspired work of God’s Word is about Jesus. For the beginning to the end, Jesus is the Alpha and Omega! John clearly reveals Jesus to us when he writes with God-driven inspiration as a personal eye witness;
We must read every word of our Bibles, God’s word to us as a love letter, knowing that it is about the God “who so loves”, Who sent Jesus, His Son to save us, and Who wants a relationship that gives us real life forever.

7-12 If you reason with an arrogant cynic, you’ll get slapped in the face;
It’s through me, Lady Wisdom, that your life deepens,
Madame Whore Calls Out, Too
Life forever or Hell? Who do we choose to spend eternity? Who do we give our hearts, minds and souls to now?
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.” John 14:1-3, NIV
Psalm 23
You prepare a table before me
Proverbs – Life Skills
1-11 Do you hear Lady Wisdom calling?
I’m telling you how to live at your best.
Prefer my life-disciplines over chasing after money,
Good counsel and common sense are my characteristics;
22-31 “God sovereignly made me—the first, the basic—
I was right there with him, making sure everything fit.
32-36 “So, my dear friends, listen carefully;
When we find and follow Jesus, we find wisdom, we find life!
Marriages come under attack daily, almost hourly! It is up to us to guard our hearts, minds and souls as we protect the sanctity of our vows made in front of God to each other. It is so easy to be swept away into the temptations of this world. Remember, the enemy (the Temptress) as presented in this proverb is always “dressed to kill” with a goal to destroy all relationships that are good in the eyes of God. God is the enemy of The Temptress. He wants all that God deems pure and holy destroyed.
Proverbs 7, The Message
13-20 She threw her arms around him and kissed him,
24-27 So, friends, listen to me,
Don’t be fooled by others who wear masks of hypocrisy and try to lure you into sin with them. Don’t be the one who lures others into sins you enjoy just so you have validation. Here is a final story that helps us to understand what it means to “put on”Jesus as Paul tells along with “clothe” ourselves with Christ.
Becoming like Christ is analogous to this. Go ahead and put on Christ. At first it may feel unnatural or uncomfortable, and maybe you may think, “Who am I trying to fool?” But everyday just keep putting on Christ and everyday you will grow to look more like him.
So Paul, what are you wearing? He tells us in God’s Word…even at 3am!