LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #13: KEEP IT SIMPLE!

Timothy and Titus Training 101 We humans are incredible at taking small things in life and complicating it with our opinions, our wonderings, and our lack of true knowledge. We let our emotions ent…

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #13: KEEP IT SIMPLE!

Timothy and Titus Training 101

We humans are incredible at taking small things in life and complicating it with our opinions, our wonderings, and our lack of true knowledge. We let our emotions enter in and take over, growing the little into a monster that no one else can navigate, much less understand. Paul reminds us to “keep it simple”. This is harder than it sounds.

When preparing sermons, both Randy and I do not find it hard to come up with messages, for we are passionate about the Truth of God’s Word. What is hard is narrowing down what all CAN be said to a few simple, understandable facts of Truth that will help others know Jesus more with ways to follow his teaching. (Never present a should without a how.)

If we realized, like Paul passionately said to Timothy, “God is looking over Your shoulder”, the notes of our sermons might take on new meaning, our preparation more intense, our presentation more passionate! Wow, just think about it, God IS right there with us. This is NOT just a Sunday morning exercise of our faith! It is a HOLY moment of God holding us up, looking over our shoulder, being our strength, giving us the right words to say, at the right time, in the right Spirit of love. Go deep. Keep it simple. Remember WHO is really doing the talking through you!

2 Timothy 4, The Message

1-2 I can’t impress this on you too strongly. God is looking over your shoulder. Christ himself is the Judge, with the final say on everyone, living and dead. He is about to break into the open with his rule, so proclaim the Message with intensity; keep on your watch. Challenge, warn, and urge your people. Don’t ever quit. Just keep it simple.

Reflection:
–This passage should be posted on the computer screen of everyone who seeks to help others find Christ through the messages they will prepare for next weekend.

–Keep it simple. Keep it challenging. Keep it Jesus.

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Dear Heavenly Father, Sometimes it takes a lot of words to get us to understand the importance of what You are really trying to say to us. Today, it only took a few sentences to stir our hearts. What a mighty God you are, to be everywhere at once, to look over our shoulders, and give us exactly what Your people (and us first) need to hear and take to heart. Thank you. Just thank you. Help us to listen, trust, obey and to keep it simple.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #12: NAIVETY

Timothy and Titus Training 101 There are so many of us who sit in the seats every Sunday (or Saturday nights) and listen to whatever the preacher or worship leader has to say. There many of us who …

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #12: NAIVETY

Timothy and Titus Training 101

There are so many of us who sit in the seats every Sunday (or Saturday nights) and listen to whatever the preacher or worship leader has to say. There many of us who will listen to Christian talk shows on the radio in our cars or on TV and mindlessly believe every thing they are saying. And why not, it’s a Christian station. If a politician says he/she is a Christian, we believe what they say without checking the facts out in God’s Word. If a good person, well respected in the community, leads people to do a good thing, we believe that they are Christian and must want to do things for our good. Because we are taught to look for the good in people, we are sometimes easily deceived. Satan knows that about us, and uses this trick often to make evil appear good.
We are a naive people.

Paul tells Timothy to watch out! To look thoroughly at people and do not be deceived by them. This takes prayer for discernment that we talked about earlier, along with the wisdom to check the facts in the Word consistently. Do not take anything at face value. Check it out for yourself. Question. Good questions help all of us learn.

Paul tells Timothy there are difficult times ahead…he was right! Difficult times are here NOW and always will be until Jesus comes back again. And He will. So, buckle up and stay close to the Truth (Jesus), and check out all that is said to us or done for us.

2 Timothy 3, The Message
1-5 Don’t be naive. There are difficult times ahead. As the end approaches, people are going to be self-absorbed, money-hungry, self-promoting, stuck-up, profane, contemptuous of parents, crude, coarse, dog-eat-dog, unbending, slanderers, impulsively wild, savage, cynical, treacherous, ruthless, bloated windbags, addicted to lust, and allergic to God. They’ll make a show of religion, but behind the scenes they’re animals. Stay clear of these people.

6-9 These are the kind of people who smooth-talk themselves into the homes of unstable and needy women and take advantage of them; women who, depressed by their sinfulness, take up with every new religious fad that calls itself “truth.” They get exploited every time and never really learn. These men are like those old Egyptian frauds Jannes and Jambres, who challenged Moses. They were rejects from the faith, twisted in their thinking, defying truth itself. But nothing will come of these latest impostors. Everyone will see through them, just as people saw through that Egyptian hoax.

INSTEAD…Keep the Message pure and alive!
10-13 You’ve been a good apprentice to me, a part of my teaching, my manner of life, direction, faith, steadiness, love, patience, troubles, sufferings—suffering along with me in all the grief I had to put up with in Antioch, Iconium, and Lystra. And you also well know that God rescued me! Anyone who wants to live all out for Christ is in for a lot of trouble; there’s no getting around it. Unscrupulous con men will continue to exploit the faith. They’re as deceived as the people they lead astray. As long as they are out there, things can only get worse.

14-17 But don’t let it faze you. Stick with what you learned and believed, sure of the integrity of your teachers—why, you took in the sacred Scriptures with your mother’s milk! There’s nothing like the written Word of God for showing you the way to salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. Every part of Scripture is God-breathed and useful one way or another—showing us truth, exposing our rebellion, correcting our mistakes, training us to live God’s way. Through the Word we are put together and shaped up for the tasks God has for us.

What do we learn?
–Don’t be naive.
–Return to the bottom line. Jesus is the Truth, the Way and the Life. Period.
–Stick with what you learned and believed.
–Be sure of the integrity of your teachers.
–The written word of God will show us the way to salvation through faith in Christ Jesus….our Lord as well as our Savior.
–God’s Word exposes our rebellion and the rebellion of others and shows us the Truth. Every. Time.
–God’s Word molds and shapes us to be and do all that God created us to be and do.

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Dear Heavenly Father, We thank you for this guidance and reminder to check out all the facts in Your Word before preceding forward. Thank you for Your Presence in our lives always.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #11: LISTEN!

Timothy and Titus Training 101 One the gifts missing in this world is the ability to really listen to another person without thinking about how you are going to respond. Instead of really hearing w…

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #11: LISTEN!

Timothy and Titus Training 101

One the gifts missing in this world is the ability to really listen to another person without thinking about how you are going to respond. Instead of really hearing what the person in front of you is saying with understanding, we rapidly form an opinion of what we think they are saying and prepare our response before their sentence is even said. This assumption thinking gets us into trouble in growing mature, loving, gracious relationships with the people we are leading or following. Every. Time.

And great leader is a gentle listener, says Paul to Timothy. We must work at being great listeners. We must consciously block all personal thoughts and assumptions, STOP what we are doing, and lovingly and graciously look into their eyes as they are talking. God’s Holy Spirit will then help us see their soul and feel their heart. We get to know them more this way and then are more able to help them along in their journey. OR, what they are saying may help us in our walk! LISTEN…it is a skill that must be fine tuned daily. We are so full of ourselves at times that we hear no one but ourselves. That is a lonely place to be.

Listening begins with hearing God, looking in to His face each morning before looking into the face of mankind. Ask, “What are YOUR priorities for me this day, Lord?” Then stop and really listen to His Holy Spirit speak to your heart. HE WILL! God patiently waits for us to stop, be still, know Him and really listen to Him. Our prayers should be balanced with Adoration, Confessions, Thanksgiving, Supplications…and then Listening! Don’t get up from discussions with the Master until He has spoken and we have listened. This is life transforming when we get this right!

In our exercise of learning and practicing listening intently to our Master, we learn to listen to others with greater intensity, too! (It also makes us better parents!) Less talk. Greater listening. This is a skilled gift that can be improved upon daily and will make us better leaders.

Now, Paul to Timothy…Listen in…

2 Timothy 2, The Message

22-26 Run away from infantile indulgence. Run after mature righteousness—faith, love, peace—joining those who are in honest and serious prayer before God. Refuse to get involved in inane discussions; they always end up in fights. God’s servant must not be argumentative, but a gentle listener and a teacher who keeps cool, working firmly but patiently with those who refuse to obey. You never know how or when God might sober them up with a change of heart and a turning to the truth, enabling them to escape the Devil’s trap, where they are caught and held captive, forced to run his errands.

What do we learn?
–“Don’t hear what I’m not saying” is the battle cry of most people who seek to be understood.
–Listen gently and patiently, without thought of how you are to respond.
–THINK before responding. Take in all the facts. Don’t had fuel to the fire, but instead seek to defuse the situations. A good listener does this well.
–Bottom line of listening…God might use us to help someone turn to the Truth and escape the devil’s hold on them. So listening could be a matter of LIFE or death!

Listen

Dear Heavenly Father, Here we are again, asking you to help us listen like you listen to us. Help us to see others through your eyes. Help us to see ourselves through Your eyes. But mostly, help us listen…graciously, gently while giving worth to whom we are listening. May our words be from your heart when we do speak. May our words restore not tear down. Thank you, Lord. Now I will be quiet and listen to You.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #10: GREAT LEADERS TRAIN GREAT LEADERS WHO TRAIN GREAT LEADERS….

Timothy and Titus Training 101 There is little disagreement about the fact that our churches, our local, state and national governments are in a serious leadership shortfall. There are not enough t…

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #10: GREAT LEADERS TRAIN GREAT LEADERS WHO TRAIN GREAT LEADERS….

Timothy and Titus Training 101

There is little disagreement about the fact that our churches, our local, state and national governments are in a serious leadership shortfall. There are not enough trained leaders to LEAD…Loving Excel in ADministration of what God is calling us to do as leaders…to TRAIN others to lead. This should probably be about 80% of our work as leaders…to train, to mentor, and to take joy in passing on what you know and has been given to you as a leader.

We need to be willing to let go of our present position by training someone else to take over, who might do the job even better than we did it! Do you really think God won’t have something else for you to do when you pass it on? Seriously, there is so much to accomplish on this journey! God is GOD! We need to constantly be looking for potential leaders that we can pass on what God has so graciously given to us.

We need to mature in our leadership and faith to the point that we actually take more joy in seeing someone else do what we did better than the way we did than in doing it ourselves! (Read this about three times until it soaks into your thinking and behavior!)

I have personally been “preaching” the following passage for many years in a variety of ways to help people understand the importance of what Paul is commanding Timothy to now do…”PASS ON what you heard from me…to reliable leaders who are competent to teach others.”

2 Timothy 2, The Message

1-7 So, my son, throw yourself into this work for Christ. Pass on what you heard from me—the whole congregation saying Amen!—to reliable leaders who are competent to teach others. When the going gets rough, take it on the chin with the rest of us, the way Jesus did. A soldier on duty doesn’t get caught up in making deals at the marketplace. He concentrates on carrying out orders. An athlete who refuses to play by the rules will never get anywhere. It’s the diligent farmer who gets the produce. Think it over. God will make it all plain.

THE MESSAGE WE PASS ON…

8-13 Fix this picture firmly in your mind: Jesus, descended from the line of David, raised from the dead. It’s what you’ve heard from me all along. It’s what I’m sitting in jail for right now—but God’s Word isn’t in jail! That’s why I stick it out here—so that everyone God calls will get in on the salvation of Christ in all its glory. This is a sure thing:

If we die with him, we’ll live with him;
If we stick it out with him, we’ll rule with him;
If we turn our backs on him, he’ll turn his back on us;
If we give up on him, he does not give up—
for there’s no way he can be false to himself.

THE METHOD WE USE…

4-18 Repeat these basic essentials over and over to God’s people. Warn them before God against pious nitpicking, which chips away at the faith. It just wears everyone out. Concentrate on doing your best for God, work you won’t be ashamed of, laying out the truth plain and simple. Stay clear of pious talk that is only talk. Words are not mere words, you know. If they’re not backed by a godly life, they accumulate as poison in the soul.

What do we learn?
–LEAD and teach in the most excellent way so that others may follow your example.
–TRAIN others to lead others, to lead others, to lead others…
–God is always with You.
–Throw ourselves in the work, FOR Christ.
–Concentrate on doing our best for God.
–Godly words must be backed by living a Godly life.
–Pious talk just wears everyone out without teaching anyone anything.
–When the going gets rough…think of what Jesus did for us.

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Dear Heavenly Father, Your Word challenges us once more and stir our hearts and minds to living even closer to You, looking full into your face and watching for your command this morning. Thank you for Your abiding Presence in our lives. Thank you for saving our souls. Thank you for teaching us to teach others to teach others with Your love in our hearts, words on our minds and fiery passion in our souls. Thank you for the joy we see when others serve You well. I’m Yours, Lord. I’m listening and watching for You as You work in us for today.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #9: WE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!

Timothy and Titus Training 101 When we were first “called” of God to full time ministry, my dad and other wise counselors we trusted said, “If you can do anything else, with peace…

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #9: WE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!

Timothy and Titus Training 101

When we were first “called” of God to full time ministry, my dad and other wise counselors we trusted said, “If you can do anything else, with peace in your hearts, then do that. However, if you cannot rest until you do this, then do it.” Do you catch the meaning? When you pray, “God break my heart of those things that break yours”, along with, “make YOUR desires mine”, then God, the Father who has been waiting for you to answer his call, will chart your path. You have taken the first step, in faith, to be fully led by God’s Holy Spirit to do the work He has called you to be and do. You really have nothing to do with it…it’s all God. We just lay down all the world stuff and say yes.

When you say the holy “YES” to God. I must admit, it is a freeing, giddy feeling that brings nothing but a smile to your face that just won’t go away, even when faced with difficult circumstances. Others notice with, “what’s wrong with you?” Because inside, where God resides, you are at peace. What precious memories, I am having right now of when Randy and I were first called into full time ministry, knowing it would mean cutting our income in half, but it just didn’t matter. Over the years, God has taught us, that to live abundantly is to live Christ. No matter what. Like Paul, there have been good times, with plenty in the bank account to pay the bills and other times it was a struggle, but all the bills got paid, there was food to eat and clothes to wear and a home to live. Where God guides, He provides. My hope is built on Jesus Christ. My faith grows by my awareness of God in our midst. He IS always there.

So, this being said, Paul message and encouragement to Timothy is precious, challenging, affirming to us this morning. I pray it opens all our hearts, minds and souls and we allow the Holy Spirit to refresh us with His breath of renewal and restoration. I pray that you would be free to follow the Master, boldly, lovingly and sensibly…

2 Timothy 1, The Message
3-4 Every time I say your name in prayer—which is practically all the time—I thank God for you, the God I worship with my whole life in the tradition of my ancestors. I miss you a lot, especially when I remember that last tearful good-bye, and I look forward to a joy-packed reunion.

5-7 That precious memory triggers another: your honest faith—and what a rich faith it is, handed down from your grandmother Lois to your mother Eunice, and now to you! And the special gift of ministry you received when I laid hands on you and prayed—keep that ablaze! God doesn’t want us to be shy with his gifts, but bold and loving and sensible.

8-10 So don’t be embarrassed to speak up for our Master or for me, his prisoner. Take your share of suffering for the Message along with the rest of us. We can only keep on going, after all, by the power of God, who first saved us and then called us to this holy work. We had nothing to do with it. It was all his idea, a gift prepared for us in Jesus long before we knew anything about it. But we know it now. Since the appearance of our Savior, nothing could be plainer: death defeated, life vindicated in a steady blaze of light, all through the work of Jesus.

11-12 This is the Message I’ve been set apart to proclaim as preacher, emissary, and teacher. It’s also the cause of all this trouble I’m in. But I have no regrets. I couldn’t be more sure of my ground—the One I’ve trusted in can take care of what he’s trusted me to do right to the end.

13-14 So keep at your work, this faith and love rooted in Christ, exactly as I set it out for you. It’s as sound as the day you first heard it from me. Guard this precious thing placed in your custody by the Holy Spirit who works in us.

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Ah, dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for the memories that flood our mind this morning. Thank you for the way You have worked in our lives over the years. When we were defeated and broken, You were there to pick us up, comfort and challenge us again. When we were being a difference for Your Kingdom it was all because of you guiding and directing. Our gift was peace. Thank you for all you have done, are doing and will do in our lives and in the lives of others around us. Thank you for the heritage of parents and grandparents in our lives that kept us steady, on our feet in our faith. Thank you for your Word and Your Holy Spirit who confronts and comforts us as we read and live it. To YOU be all glory, honor and praise. YOU are God and we are not. We had nothing to do with Your Purpose. We only say yes.
May we continue to say yes…in Jesus Name, Amen

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