LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #3

Timothy and Titus Training 101

Leadership Principle #3: Integrity

Who do you trust? Who would you follow? Who do you go to for advice and help? Like me, you probably seek out people who are consistently real, not perfect and knows it, has wisdom without judgement, confronts with care and loves like Jesus loves…without condition. You look for those who lay aside their own interests for the interests of others well being. They are not necessarily rich monetarily, but are content with what they have.

They “walk the talk”, living out what God’s Word says and live a blessed life in spite of circumstances beyond their control. They consistently do the right thing, even when it hurts. They seem to have a consistent communication with God and look for direction from the Holy Spirit when making decisions. They take a stand for God and don’t waver from Jesus’ teachings. This is called integrity of faith. Integrity, built through experience, is tested over the course of time. Their first thought in the morning is love for God and love for others.

Paul gives Timothy the perimeters for principled people to seek to help lead AND serve in God’s church.

1-7 If anyone wants to provide leadership in the church, good! But there are preconditions: A leader must be well-thought-of, committed to his wife, cool and collected, accessible, and hospitable. He must know what he’s talking about, not be overfond of wine, not pushy but gentle, not thin-skinned, not money-hungry. He must handle his own affairs well, attentive to his own children and having their respect. For if someone is unable to handle his own affairs, how can he take care of God’s church? He must not be a new believer, lest the position go to his head and the Devil trip him up. Outsiders must think well of him, or else the Devil will figure out a way to lure him into his trap.

8-13 The same goes for those who want to be servants in the church: serious, not deceitful, not too free with the bottle, not in it for what they can get out of it. They must be reverent before the mystery of the faith, not using their position to try to run things. Let them prove themselves first. If they show they can do it, take them on. No exceptions are to be made for women—same qualifications: serious, dependable, not sharp-tongued, not overfond of wine. Servants in the church are to be committed to their spouses, attentive to their own children, and diligent in looking after their own affairs. Those who do this servant work will come to be highly respected, a real credit to this Jesus-faith.

What do we learn?
–Integrity is tested over time leading to consistency of wisdom, insight and understanding.
–Integrity is highly sought after and honored.
–Integrity comes from a heart motivated by God’s Holy Spirit to lead and help others know Him more and more.
–Integrity is highly respected in our faith in Jesus. Jesus honors integrity for HE knows our hearts.

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Dear Heavenly Father, In this world of fake, flattery and fraud, it is refreshing to find a person of integrity to love and lead well. May we mature to be all You intended for us to be and do in our families, in Your church and in the world of darkness. May we reflect Your powerful light of love and Truth.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLE #2

Timothy and Titus Training 101

Leadership Principle #2: PRAY

“The first thing I want you to do is pray. Pray every way you know how, for everyone you know. Pray especially for rulers and their governments to rule well so we can be quietly about our business of living simply, in humble contemplation. This is the way our Savior God wants us to live.” 1 Timothy 2, The Message

This is how we get to know God more and more. Prayer involves passionate, deep anticipated listening, expecting God to respond. It might in a whisper of thought to our soul. He might speak through a situation, giving you wisdom. He might reveal a solution to a tragic situation before you knew you needed a rescue. Prayer is not just an exercise of a morning devotion or wake up call, but a “here I am, Lord, what do you have planned for today?”

Through humble prayer we realize how small we are compared to our Heavenly Father who loves us and is waiting to give HIS best for us when we come to Him. He delights in even the smallest details of our lives. What is big to us is tiny to Him, but He delights in us telling Him about them anyway.

Prayer is intimacy with our Lord. HE hears every prayer. He knows us by name. He knows the people we are holding up to Him in prayer. He knows our hearts and the depths of our belief in knowing that He hears us and is already working on it…or him…or her, showing His power and glory!

He wipes away the tears that fall when we cry out to him in anguish over being offended or brought down low when trying to lead well. He brings peace in the middle of the storm, so we lead well with calm and assurance. In doing this, He reminds us that He went through the same things we are going through and more…and He is there, right beside us.

He reminds us that HE fights the battles while we pray. We run to the battle, fall on our knees, and He wins. Every. Time. We accept His will, His timing, His plan for we know and believe that HE wants the best for all of us.

Jesus prayed. Jesus wept. Jesus carried a cross of shame. Jesus paid the debt of all our sin. Jesus taught and led his disciples to pray. He knew they would need this intimacy of prayer to give them strength and direction when He ascended to heaven to prepare a place for them…and for all who came after them.
“Matthew 6:9–13 (ESV) “Pray then like this: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.'”

Pray in Jesus Name. This reminds us that we are asking for God’s will to, indeed, be done and not our own. Prayer, in Jesus Name, is acknowledging, every time, that Jesus is Lord, the One and Only mediator to God the Father. In Jesus Name, our sins are washed away. Indeed. Once and for all.

While Jesus was on this earth, He prayed, asking God for His direction for every move He made. Jesus, the Son of God! Why, then, do we NOT pray before beginning each day to get our “marching orders”? Jesus said, “The words I speak are not my own, but my Father who lives in me does his work through me.” (John 14:10, NLT) Words fall over our lips from a heart that is set toward God, full to overflowing with HIS Holy Spirit.

A leader who prays, listening for every word of God’s response, is a leader who is intimately in love with the One who loves him/her most. That person is one I will follow because they are following God. How about you?

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Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for teaching us to pray, to talk with You about anything and everything, knowing You are listening and waiting for us to express it before it is even on our lips. You are God and we are not. You knew we needed this intimate communication that is constant and never ceasing. Thank you, Lord, for making the way clear to the Father. May Your Kingdom come and reign in me today. May Your will be done on earth, in every detail in our lives, as it is in heaven. In Jesus Name, Amen. I believe.

And I’m singing…”In Jesus Name”….

Hope for all the world, You came down,
Traded heaven’s throne for a sinner’s crown,
Grace poured out.
Son of righteousness crucified,
Hanging on the cross You paid the price,
To give us life…

In Jesus’ name our sins are washed away,
In Jesus’ name we are rescued, we are saved,
For love has come to make a way for us,
In Jesus’ name there is freedom for the broken,
In Jesus’ name there is healing for the hopeless,
For all our days, we rest in Jesus’ name…

You alone are good forever true,
Never far away, we’re holding on to You,
Only You…

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LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES

Timothy and Titus Training 101

Leadership Principle #1: KNOW your message. I am a sinner. Jesus came to save sinners like me.

“Here’s a word you can take to heart and depend on: Jesus Christ came into the world to save sinners. I’m proof–Public Sinner Number One–of someone who could never have made it apart from sheer mercy.” 1 Timothy 1, The Message

A true leader leads others to define their message as sinners saved by grace:

“And now he (God) shows me off–evidence of his endless patience–to those who are right on the edge of trusting him forever. Deep honor and bright glory to the King of All Time–One God, Immortal, Invisible, ever and always. Oh, yes!” 1 Timothy 1, the Message

A great leader produces other great leaders…

“I’m passing this work on to you, my son Timothy. The prophetic word that was directed to you prepared us for this.” 1 Timothy 1, The Message

You can only take others as far as YOU have been in God’s Word and actions.

Warning…FOCUS….Get a grip!
“All those prayers are coming together now so you will do this well, fearless in your struggle, keeping a firm grip on your faith and on yourself. After all, this is a fight we’re in. There are some, you know, who by relaxing their grip and thinking anything goes have made a thorough mess of their faith.

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Dear Heavenly Father, We are led by your Holy Spirit to take Your nuggets of leadership wisdom, one small bite at a time. The relationship between Paul and Timothy reveal many lessons in leadership and followership. It is so important for us to follow You first and throughout as you assign us tasks along our journey that are too big for us alone. Thank you for your help through others in our lives who have taught and led us with wisdom, unconditionally love, mercy and grace. Thank you for saving us, as sinners saved by grace. Continue to go with us.
In Jesus Name, Amen

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WE ARE SECOND.

The training of Timothy and Titus

Christians are quite serious in believing that when they gather together for worship and work, God is present and sovereign, really present and absolutely sovereign. God creates and guides, God saves and heals, God corrects and blesses, God calls and judges. With such comprehensive and personal leadership from God, what is the place of human leadership?

Quite obviously, it has to be second place. It must not elbow its way to the front, it must not bossily take over. Ego-centered, ego-prominent leadership betrays the Master. The best leadership in spiritual communities formed in the name of Jesus, the Messiah, is inconspicuous, not calling attention to itself but not sacrificing anything in the way of conviction and firmness either.

In Paul’s letter to two young associates–Timothy in Ephesus and Titus in Crete–we see Paul encouraging and guiding the development of just such leadership. What he had learned so thoroughly himself, he was now passing on, and showing them in turn, how to develop a similar leadership in local congregations. This is essential reading because ill-directed and badly formed spiritual leadership causes much damage in souls. Paul in both his life and his letters shows us how to do it right…in the most excellent way…with love…and all for God’s glory and praise.

“The whole point of what we’re urging is simply love–love uncontaminated by self-interest and counterfeit faith, a life open to God.” 1 Timothy 1, The Message

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Dear Heavenly Father, Help us to get it right. Deliver us from evil. Help to run from the temptations to follow the popular and stay focused on You, our Father in Heaven, staying true to Your Word. Help us to do all in the most excellent way, in Your Holy Spirit of love. In Jesus Name, Amen We are second. Always.

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ANNOYING LAZINESS

Thessalonians – Living Forward

When we are working hard to get something accomplished and the person next to you, who could be helping you, is texting on their phone, it’s annoying. Right? Laziness is annoying. Isn’t it amazing how skillful lazy people are at rationalizing their lack of drive and push. “I’m tired, I deserve a break.” “I have a bad back, so I can’t help you.” “I got up too late so therefore I cannot help you.” “My mood is bad, so I should not be around others right now.” “I’m feel a cold coming on, so I should stay in bed.” “I loved the meal, but now I am too full to help you clean up.” The list goes can go on and on…We might have all used these excuses before ourselves. Yikes.

Paul warns God’s church of believers about laziness. Listen in with open hearts as we read the last part of his letter to the Thessalonians. He has been so encouraging and full of praise through both letters. The believers are “living Jesus”, “living forward”. Then they are warned about how to deal with laziness…by confronting with care.

2 Thessalonians 3, The Message
Those Who Are Lazy
3 1-3 One more thing, friends: Pray for us. Pray that the Master’s Word will simply take off and race through the country to a groundswell of response, just as it did among you. And pray that we’ll be rescued from these scoundrels who are trying to do us in. I’m finding that not all “believers” are believers. But the Master never lets us down. He’ll stick by you and protect you from evil.

4-5 Because of the Master, we have great confidence in you. We know you’re doing everything we told you and will continue doing it. May the Master take you by the hand and lead you along the path of God’s love and Christ’s endurance.

6-9 Our orders—backed up by the Master, Jesus—are to refuse to have anything to do with those among you who are lazy and refuse to work the way we taught you. Don’t permit them to freeload on the rest. We showed you how to pull your weight when we were with you, so get on with it. We didn’t sit around on our hands expecting others to take care of us. In fact, we worked our fingers to the bone, up half the night moonlighting so you wouldn’t be burdened with taking care of us. And it wasn’t because we didn’t have a right to your support; we did. We simply wanted to provide an example of diligence, hoping it would prove contagious.

10-13 Don’t you remember the rule we had when we lived with you? “If you don’t work, you don’t eat.” And now we’re getting reports that a bunch of lazy good-for-nothings are taking advantage of you. This must not be tolerated. We command them to get to work immediately—no excuses, no arguments—and earn their own keep. Friends, don’t slack off in doing your duty.

14-15 If anyone refuses to obey our clear command written in this letter, don’t let him get by with it. Point out such a person and refuse to subsidize his freeloading. Maybe then he’ll think twice. But don’t treat him as an enemy. Sit him down and talk about the problem as someone who cares.

16 May the Master of Peace himself give you the gift of getting along with each other at all times, in all ways. May the Master be truly among you!

17 I, Paul, bid you good-bye in my own handwriting. I do this in all my letters, so examine my signature as proof that the letter is genuine.

18 The incredible grace of our Master, Jesus Christ, be with all of you!

What do we learn?
–Don’t get annoyed, sit down and talk it over in a caring manner.
–Don’t treat them as an enemy, holding a grudge for them.
–Ask for help.
–Get along with EVERYONE at ALL times.
–God will be with us. A promise that will not be broken.

Dear Heavenly Father, We repent of the times we were lazy and just gave up when there was still work to be done. We repent of holding grudges instead of asking for help. We thank you for always being with us, through the good times and bad, for loving us deeply and for your amazing patience with us. Continue to go with us this busy day. In Jesus Name, Amen

Colossians 4

I am reminded of an old hymn that crosses my mind from time to time, especially when I used to clean bathrooms at the church…”We Work ‘Til Jesus Comes”….Smiling….

O land of rest, for thee I sigh!
When will the moment come
When I shall lay my armor by
And dwell in peace at home?
Refrain:
We’ll work till Jesus comes,
We’ll work till Jesus comes,
We’ll work till Jesus comes,
And we’ll be gathered home.

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THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT

Thessalonians – Living Forward We are so loved by God. YOU are loved by God. I am loved by God. Stop, and just let that sink in. The more we realize how much WE are loved, even though it is h…

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THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT

Thessalonians – Living Forward

We are so loved by God. YOU are loved by God. I am loved by God. Stop, and just let that sink in. The more we realize how much WE are loved, even though it is hard to wrap our minds around the depth of God’s unconditional love, we will love others more deeply, sincerely with less conditions. Think about it. The more we understand and accept how much we are loved by God, we love others more with a higher standard with less conditions! More mercy for each other, more grace extended, all because of understanding deeply the Father’s love for us.

“Meanwhile, we’ve got our hands full continually thanking God for you, our good friends–so loved by God! God picked you out as his from the very start. Thank of it: included in God’s original plan of salvation by the bond of faith in living truth. THIS is the life of the Spirit he invited you to through the Message we delivered, in which you get in on the glory of our Master, Jesus Christ.”

“So, friends, take a firm stand, feet on the ground and head high. Keep a tight grip on what you were taught, whether in personal conversation or by our letter. May Jesus himself and God our Father, who reached out in love and surprised you with gifts of unending help and confidence, put a fresh heart in you, invigorate your work, enliven our speech.”
2 Thessalonians 2, The Message

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Dear Heavenly Father, I woke this morning with the song of praise of your amazing love for us…”how deep the Father’s love for us, how vast beyond all measure, that You would give Your only Son, to make a wretch Your treasure…Wow, Your love is not like the world loves at all. Help us to get a firm grip on Your love and not every let go. In Jesus Name, Amen. I believe.

How deep the Father’s love for us
How vast beyond all measure
That He should give His only Son
To make a wretch His treasure

How great the pain of searing loss
The Father turns His face away
As wounds which mar the Chosen One
Bring many sons to glory

Behold the man upon a cross
My sin upon His shoulders
Ashamed, I hear my mocking voice
Call out among the scoffers

It was my sin that held Him there
Until it was accomplished
His dying breath has brought me life
I know that it is finished

I will not boast in anything
No gifts, no power, no wisdom
But I will boast in Jesus Christ
His death and resurrection

Why should I gain from His reward?
I cannot give an answer
But this I know with all my heart
His wounds have paid my ransom

Why should I gain from His reward?
I cannot give an answer
But this I know with all my heart
His wounds have paid my ransom

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UNTIL HE COMES…

Thessalonians – Living Forward “I can’t wait for my best friend to come and be with us!” “Oh, I can’t wait for our family to arrive! We haven’t seen them i…

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UNTIL HE COMES…

Thessalonians – Living Forward

“I can’t wait for my best friend to come and be with us!” “Oh, I can’t wait for our family to arrive! We haven’t seen them in so long” Until they get here, I will clean house, making it pleasant for them to enjoy their stay. I will prepare for their coming with excitement and expectancy of good times.

Jesus IS coming back, you know, as believers. That is the rock, the foundation of our faith…that we will see Him again. What do we do in the wait? Are we as excited as receiving a best friend or family member? Are we preparing? Are we in good shape (fit) Spiritually, emotionally, physically, mentally…prayerfully?

In the wait and UNTIL Jesus comes, let us meditate on the next passage Paul, inspired by God, writes to believers…

2 Thessalonians, 1, The Message
11-12 Because we know that this extraordinary day is just ahead, we pray for you all the time—pray that our God will make you fit for what he’s called you to be, pray that he’ll fill your good ideas and acts of faith with his own energy so that it all amounts to something. If your life honors the name of Jesus, he will honor you. Grace is behind and through all of this, our God giving himself freely, the Master, Jesus Christ, giving himself freely.

What do we learn?
–Pray…all the time.
–Pray that God will make us fit for HIS service for HIS glory.
–Pray that God’s energy will be poured into us as we serve. Wow! Can we handle God’s energy in us? Just that is exciting to think about!
–Honor God with all we think, say, and do.
–GRACE is behind and through it all…God giving Himself to us.

What amazing love is this? What a great hope we have!

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Dear Heavenly Father, As we work today, let us prayerfully remember this passage all day long. May Your Word become our standard for living with expectancy of Your return! Thank you for the hope you have given us for today. In Jesus Name, Amen

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NO ONE LIKE OUR GOD!

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